The Resident, Esra Hughes

This month, we had the pleasure of chatting with Esra Hughes, a true force of nature whose journey is nothing short of inspiring. A devoted Cammeray resident, Esra wears many hats – from a former lawyer specialising in Technology and Intellectual Property, to a mum of three and a dedicated advocate for Autism. 

Her story takes a deeply personal turn as she opens up about her 6-year-old son, Teddy, who has Autism and is non-verbal. Esra’s commitment to making a difference in the lives of those like Teddy shines through her involvement with Giant Steps, an organisation dedicated to supporting and educating adults and children on the autism spectrum.

In our interview, we find out why Esra loves Cammeray, and she shares her insights on the transformative role of Giant Steps in the lives of many families, including their own.

You could have lived anywhere, why Cammeray?

Originally from the UK and Turkey, Cammeray wasn’t even on our radar when my husband and I, newly married with a one-year-old, lived in a Paddington apartment. My Sydney experience had been confined to the Eastern Suburbs and the CBD. But as our family grew, we needed more space. We stumbled upon our Cammeray property just days before the auction, and I was overseas with our son Teddy at the time, unable to see it in person.

Now, after almost six years in Cammeray, I adore it here. It’s a tight-knit, friendly community with everything we need within walking distance. My husband’s quick commute, only 15 minutes, is a lifesaver with three kids under six. We’re also lucky that Cammeray is just 20 minutes from Giant Steps School, where Teddy attends. When I think about the challenges of raising an autistic child, I’m reminded of how fortunate we are to do so in Sydney, and at one of the world’s best Autism institutions. Plus, we’re surrounded by Sydney’s best beaches and parks, essential for Teddy’s well-being. His favourite spots like Primrose Park, Tunks Park, Clifton Gardens, and Chinaman’s Beach are just minutes away.

What’s your favourite cafe, bar or place to eat in the area?

Ellie May’s Nook in Cammeray holds a special place in my heart due to its strong sense of community and the warmth shared among its loyal customers. Genuine smiles and friendly faces are guaranteed there.

For the absolute best coffee in Sydney, Chaos Cafe in Neutral Bay is the go-to spot. If my husband ever disappears, I know I’d find him there.

While dining out isn’t a frequent occurrence for us, ordering takeaway from Eat Sushi in Cammeray on a Friday night always adds a special touch. And when we do manage to arrange childcare for a date night, Bistro Mosman is a definite favourite.

Any local hidden gems you’d be kind enough to share with us? 

Primrose Park during the week is a true hidden gem. You’ll often have the entire place to yourself, making it the perfect spot for a peaceful dog walk and a chance to reset. Before Teddy started school, I cherished watching him embrace the freedom of that open space. Breathing in the fresh air, feeling the wind in his hair, the grass beneath his bare feet, and gazing up at the rustling leaves allowed him to experience a sense of boundless freedom that he doesn’t often encounter in a world filled with restrictions and challenges for him.

In terms of home, what’s the best room in your house?

Teddy’s bedroom takes the top spot. It’s the largest room, and as a self-proclaimed DIY enthusiast and amateur artist, I’ve transformed it into a sensory playground during the day. Here, he can safely release his energy through acrobatics on various apparatus, which keeps him from exploring riskier areas like bannisters, windows, fences, and balconies. At night, it becomes a calming and soothing space adorned with ocean wave paintings on the walls and a mural I painted on the ceiling (a special thanks to Mosman Chiropractic Centre for helping me recover afterward!). I’ve even installed automated mood lighting and a star projector to clearly define “playtime” from “quiet time.” It’s an exceptionally cool room.

What’s your ideal weekend in Sydney?

Being an Autism family, traditional holidays aren’t common for us due to Teddy’s need for routine and his tendency to sprint off unexpectedly. Luckily, we have fantastic disability carers who take Teddy on sensory adventures, allowing us to enjoy more typical family outings like beach trips, park visits, and indulging in “babycinos.”

Recently, we installed a heated “therapy” pool in our backyard, which Teddy uses year-round. It’s been a lifesaver on tough days and a favourite for our girls too. Water seems to break down Teddy’s social barriers, fostering a beautiful bond with his sisters. Plus, it’s a rare opportunity for my husband and me to relax with a glass of wine while keeping a close eye on all three of them.

And finally, we’re excited to be raising awareness and funds for Giant Steps this month, how did you get involved with this incredible foundation?

After my son’s Autism diagnosis and his lack of verbal development, we explored options for special needs schools. I was drawn to Giant Steps, an Autism-specific school where I believed he could truly thrive. It’s a remarkable place where kids and adults on the Autism Spectrum experience life to the fullest, thanks to dedicated, skilled, and selfless staff. Witnessing their tireless efforts to help these individuals succeed is incredibly humbling.

Giant Steps is not just a school; it’s a community. Autism can be an isolating journey for families, and Giant Steps offers a sense of belonging not only for students but also for their families. The school’s fee-free model ensures equal opportunities for children from diverse backgrounds, relying on collaboration among families and community generosity for support.

Being part of the Giant Steps community has been one of my most rewarding experiences. With guidance from one of the school’s founders, my friend and mentor, Steve Anthony, I’m committed to playing a more significant role in securing the school’s future. I recently spoke to a large audience at the 2023 Giant Steps Gala Ball and am currently working on some other projects with members of staff and the Board to help the school achieve its current and future fundraising goals. 

To learn more about Giant Steps, visit their website here, and please support our September initiative as we aim to raise $50,000 by walking 10,000 steps a day! Donate here.